“Insecurities”: The Art of Living in a World That’s Constantly Judging
(A POEM AS WELL)
-The power of our words…
Hey everyone,
I wanted to share something that's been on my mind lately, and I hope it resonates with some of you. You know, growing up can be tough. And no, I’m not talking about learning algebra or dealing with curfews (though those are pretty rough too). I'm talking about the judgments and whispers that seem to follow us around like a shadow.
I’ve been dealing with a lot of social anxiety because of it. It’s funny, but I’m actually more scared to be around people I know than strangers. With strangers, I could be anyone(sometimes). But with people I know, it feels like they already have this fixed image of me, and it isn’t a nice one or sometimes imagining myself in an extremely embarrassing moment..
Well,But one thing I’ve learned through my journey is the power of our words. It’s easy to forget just how much impact they can have on others. We might say something without really thinking about it, but those words can leave a lasting impression.
Insecurities
In a world so obsessed with the way we look,
I stand tall but it's hard, in this nook,
Every day's a battle, just to be me,
But they keep tearing me down, can't they see?
Friends should lift you up, that's what they say,
But sometimes their words, they take my light away,
Insecurities like shadows, they cast so wide,
But I won't let their judgment be my guide.
I won't let their words define who I am,
In this journey of life, I'll take my own stand,
No matter my size, my worth is the same,
I'll rise above their judgments, I'll play my own game.
They whisper and they laugh, behind my back,
As if being different is something I lack,
I'm more than a number on a scale or a size,
I've got dreams to chase, and I've learned to rise.
I've got beauty within, a spirit that's free,
A heart full of love, and that's enough for me,
Their negativity won't shatter my core,
I'm not defined by their judgments anymore.
Writing this poem was a huge step for me. It was like putting all my feelings into words and then setting them free. I realized something important: I'm more than a number on a scale or a clothing size. I have dreams, aspirations, and a spirit that's as free as a bird. Why should I let anyone's negativity define my worth?
Of course, it's not always easy. Sometimes their words still break me, even now. But I've learned to forgive them anyway. Maybe they're dealing with their own insecurities, or maybe they just don't understand. Holding onto their negativity only hurts me, so I choose to let it go.
But still,Imagine a piece of paper. When it’s crumpled up, even if you try to smooth it out again, it never quite looks the same. That’s what happens when we say something hurtful to someone. Even if we try to take it back or apologize, those words are still there, lingering in their mind.
But here’s the thing: just as words can hurt, they can also heal. A kind word or a compliment can brighten someone’s day in ways we might not even realize(I’ve tried it!). It’s like giving someone a little piece of sunshine to carry with them wherever they go.
So, let's make a conscious effort to choose kindness with our words. Before we speak, let's take a moment to consider how our words might impact the person we're speaking to. Let's build each other up instead of tearing each other down.
After all, the world can be a tough place sometimes, and we all need a little kindness to get through it. So let's spread kindness like confetti, and watch as it brightens up the world around us.
Thanks for reading it!
Hope you have an incredible day as well❤️💞
~PeacefulPathways
